Wednesday, December 16, 2015

WHAT BOYS REALLY LIKE ABOUT GIRLS.

Image result for african-american teenage dateThis is practically a list of the few basic things guys actually find attractive(oooh mama!) in girls. I had to ask a few of my friends, as usual, because despite every guy being different from the next, there's ALWAYS something they have in common when it comes to GIRLS. In no way should anyone feel obliged to change her personality with regard to my article nor change his taste in girls.
I've been though a couple of relationships so, guys, I also found what my friends and other bloggers had to say TRUE, SO TRUE.

Here goes:
#ONE : Girls being themselves.
 Guys love it when a girl maintains her personality despite her surroundings, her crew, a crush...you get the drift. It hows how mature she is and that she is comfortable in her skin and that she doesn't go all pretentious in attempts to fit in.

#TWO : Smiley Girls
When a girl is cheerful and smiles as often as she can, she always come off as being extremely attractive because she appears approachable and with a peaceful aura. A girl's smile is the most beautiful "make-up" she can ever wear. Trust that!

#THREE: "Stealing" a Guy's HoodieImage result for african-american teenage date

 I do it often when it's cold and we don't have a sweater. It sorta became cliche a few years ago with guys all over Kenya saying girls should carry sweaters and stop depending on them, and leaving them to freeze LOL. Girl have been doing this since, like, forever and it's in just about every romantic movie I've watched. It's totally adorable to guys. Makes them feel needed, appreciated, and loved. They enjoy feeling all that. Being the HERO. And it's not just the hoodies. Even scarves, and t-shirts, and hirts,socks...wwwwwhhw!!

#FOUR: Texting Him First, Instead of Waiting For Him To Text First.
Yeah, as a girl, I totally am used to waiting for the guys to text first but who set this rule anyway??? Guys admit they sometimes prefer it that the girl takes initiative. Makes her come out of the stereotyped zone and she appears more in control as well as super caring and less snobby.

#FIVE: Guys love it when girls wanna cuddle. 
Yup! It's out. They might complain, but guys love it. I'll also reference this point to all the pinterest and IG photos of #relationshipgoals. There's a Youtube video I watched quite recently where a guy admitted this as being one of the things he and other boys love about girls. So go on, schooch over and text him "DTC" when he come over.

#SIX: Playful Fights
Image result for african-american teenage dateAccording to my bestfriend, a girl who isn't too stiff is just ADORABLE. Again, this should not make you wanna take up a boxing class or Tae Kwon Do. A girl that can be silly around a guy is an absolute 10 to him...and frankly, several other boys.

#SEVEN: A spontaneous Girl
Boys love surprises too. They love adventure. And thus, they love a girl who'll drop by with a killer movie and some drinks just to chill. They will love it when a girl suggests a cool/weird/fancy/creepy place to visit, or a roadtrip....This kinda girl is the lively one that believes in living life to the fullest.

#EIGHT: Sense of Humour
This is sorta similar to the point I stated above about smiling often. Guys have been known to love girls who laugh at their jokes. But many girls took it too far and they would laugh at lame jokes just so a guy would like them. YUCK! Having a sense of humour involves making hilarious jokes too and making him laugh. It also involves making fun of his lame jokes and so both of you end up laughing together. Yes, it's as simple as that. Finding humour in the world.

#NINE: Beautiful Personality.
Image result for african-american teenage dateA girl with a beautiful, rather that dark personality is always a treasure for most guys. Here's the thing, being constantly rude and depressed-looking turns everyone off.

#TEN: A Girl with Hobbies
Guys love a girl with her own lifestyle and hobbies she is passionate about. They love an interesting girl with something she can start talking about and go on and on.

There you have it. If you agree or disagree, drop your comments below and let's debate. Also, if you feel I've left something out, feel free to let me know in the comment as well.
Oh, one more thing. If there;s a particular king of stories and articles you'd like to see here, let me know and I'll be happy to research on them and post them.